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Taapsee: If You Find My Cleavage Attractive, Why Should It Bother Me? it’s an asset!

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Taapsee: If You Find My Cleavage Attractive, Why Should It Bother Me? it’s an asset!

Taapsee Pannu talks about her personal experiences with men, cleavage, much more in this interview!

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One of the bravest actors of B-Town  Taapsee Pannu opens up about the big deal we make about how women should dress. Taapsee Pannu’s video with Swara Bhaskar has been doing the rounds of social media since last night and here are the excerpts from the conversation with a leading tabloid:

How did the video with Swara happen?
A few days ago, I got a call to say something about how people look at women in different places like the gym, office, et al. I just did my bit and came home. I didn’t even know that Swara would also be a part of it.

Have you had personal experiences with men staring at you?
I used to get stares for a very long time when I went to the gym. Every time I had to make sure that my cleavage is not seen. I used to cover myself almost fully. It’s not easy to do that, especially if you indulge in heavy workouts, else you won’t be able to concentrate on your exercises. And then, I realised that I was not doing anything productive, it had gone beyond my comfort. I started being very careful on the same lines when I went to meet filmmakers, even about my skirt for the matter, so that I don’t have to be conscious about my sitting posture all the time- else it might send out a wrong hint. Finally, something happened. Something very absurd.

What made you feel absurd?
I started feeling that my clothes and my body have become other people’s property.  And mind you, it was not as if that someone else was my father. It was some outsider’s perspective, ki Woh kya sochega, which I was worried about.

How did you counter that?
I understood that dressing up was not about covering or flaunting the body. It was simply about what your body is comfortable in (pauses). Still, it was becoming so much of a drama. Every time you go out, you are checking yourself out in the mirror from different angles. From one angle it was fine, but from the other, it was not! And I started looking at how Hollywood ladies dress up.  I know their culture is different, but I underlined that men will be men. I said to men in my mind: You want to give a catcall? Is it attracting you? That’s your problem. Why am I getting harassed? Why am I getting offended? They’re surely not abusing me. If they want to notice it, why should I be offended? If you find my cleavage attractive, why should it bother me? Why not own it as an asset? Why are we treating it as a burden? It’s just that if a man is talking to a woman, his eyeballs start travelling and she sees that he is not looking at her face but somewhere down. Mind you, this man can be anyone, someone who has come home or even an acquaintance who is meeting her after a long time, this eyeball shift is a common phenomenon.

It can happen if you are covered till the neck too…
Absolutely, that’s exactly my point. So why are we investing so much time over some random person’s thought if and when he’s looking at it?
Were you told things like these in your growing up years?
Always— you have to sit like this and not like that, no short clothes, no deep backs, no tight clothes…

Did you rebel?
No, we took it as dos and don’ts of life. It’s only when you grow up that you understand that this all has to do with the mindset of society.

We hope this encourages women and men both towards thinking forward, beyond the objectification of women. Kudos to Taapsee and Swara!

Check out the video below on How much cleavage is a good cleavage, courtesy Taapsee and Swara!

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